Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Love Your Enemy

As we reflect on the importance of Independence Day, how will we hear Jesus' invitation to love not only our neighbors, but our enemies as well. 


There’s a parable that the Jesuit priest Anthony De Mello tells in his book The Song of the Bird. The story entitled Jesus At The Football Match goes as follows:

Jesus Christ said he had never been to a football match. So we took him to one, my friends and I. It was a ferocious battle between the Protestant Punchers and the Catholic Crusaders.

The Crusaders scored first. Jesus cheered wildly and threw his hat high up in the air. Then the Punchers scored. And Jesus cheered wildly and threw his hat high up in the air.

This seemed to puzzle the man behind us. He tapped Jesus on the shoulder and asked, “Which side are you rooting for, my good man?”

“Me?” replied Jesus, visibly excited by the game. “Oh, I’m not rooting for either side. I’m just enjoying the game.”

The questioner turned to his neighbor and sneered, “Hmm, an atheist!”

We took him up on this after the game. Was he in the habit of never taking sides? “I side with people rather than religious,” said Jesus, “human beings rather than Sabbath.”[1]

Here in the United States we grow up being taught of our exceptionalism. We learn of concepts like Manifest Destiny. Our media reinforces that we are the greatest of all nations. Our sense of greatness almost feels like it is in the air we breath. This story from Fr. Anthony De Mello, as silly as we may think it is, points in a different direction. That direction is the same direction we hear Jesus leading us in our Gospel reading for Independence Day.

“Love your neighbor,” is the second greatest of all the commandments according to Jesus of Nazareth. Following it is hard enough. We have a difficult enough time in our country loving our neighbor who has a different opinion, background, faith, custom, or story than our own. We hear Jesus saying these words—almost every Sunday at the 8 o’clock service—and perhaps quietly we nod our head. But, to live out this truth, to actually love our neighbor is really hard.

To do this we have to see that neighbor from beyond our limited perspective. We have to find common ground: we live on the same street, reside in the same town, share a mutual friend, or have a common interest. To put it in the language of De Mello’s parable, we root for the same team, the same side. And, while this is difficult to find common ground, it is not impossible. However, Jesus did not stop speaking after he said “Love your neighbor,” no this was just the introduction.

Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven.” What stands out here is not that we are called to love our enemies. Yes that is striking! However, what stops me in my tracks is that loving our enemies is how we become children of God. The way we are these children is by being like our Father/Mother in heaven. And, to do this, we cannot just cheer for our team.

To be like God, to be like Jesus, to be filled with the Spirit we are called to see even our enemies through the eyes of Our Loving God. I am not saying this is easy. It’s almost certainly impossible. In truth, it definitely is impossible on our own. But, with God, through God all things are possible. Yes, even loving our enemies.

To love our enemies though we must be able to cheer for both sides. To love our enemies we must see things not just from the perspective of what is best for us, but also what is for the good of the world, the universe, and the cosmos. To love our enemies we must be willing to cross over boundaries and love people like Jesus. And, the way he loved was and is without limit. But, there’s one more thing.

God’s call to us is not that we must love of our enemies to be his children. Rather, when Jesus said what we read today, he was describing who God’s children are. It’s a matter of fact, a matter of truth. God’s children love their enemies. That is the truth of being a child of God. We receive the transforming love of God, then we cannot help but let it overflow not just to our family, friends, and neighbors, but even to, maybe even especially to those who would persecute or hate us.

As we celebrate Independence Day, may we recall that we are a vast nation of neighbors who are called to love and to respect each other, despite our differences. And, Jesus bids us even further. As we live as children of God, we are called to love even those who despise us or our country. Let us love each other, love those close to us, and love our enemies!






[1] Anthony De Mello. “Jesus At The Football Match.” The Song of the Bird. (New York: Image Books Doubleday Press, 1982). 147-148.

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