Saturday, April 4, 2026

This Also Is What Love Looks Like

God's self-emptying love is on full display in the empty tomb when we realize that nothing—not sin, not suffering, not even death—nothing can separate us from God.


At The Liturgy of the Word

Genesis 1:1-2:4a [The Story of Creation]
Exodus 14:10-31; 15:20-21 [Israel's deliverance at the Red Sea]
Isaiah 55:1-11 [Salvation offered freely to all]
At The Eucharist

Romans 6:3-11 

Psalm 114

Matthew 28:1-10 


©2026 The Rev. Seth Olson


This sermon was not preached at the Easter Vigil at the Episcopal Church of the Holy Apostles in Hoover, AL because I left my manuscript in my office. A video of another message that I did preach may be found by clicking HERE.


Holy God, may my words be your words and when my words are not your

words, may your people be wise enough to know the same. Amen.


We began tonight in the dark.

Not as a gimmick.

Not as a dramatic flourish.

But because the darkness tells the truth.


Because there are places in our lives—and in this world—that feel like tombs.

Places where hope feels buried.
Where meaning feels unclear.
Where God feels absent.


Tonight, after starting the first fire of Easter—thank you, Pierce for your help—we lit the LIGHT OF CHRIST

And into that darkness, the flame proceeded.

A single candle at first.

Not enough to light everything all at once.

But enough to wander to our places.

And then we listened.

To story after story after story.

Creation.
Exodus.
Prophecy.

And if we’re honest, part of us might wonder:

“What do these ancient stories have to do with me?”

Because we know what science says about creation.
We know history is complicated.
We know the world doesn’t always look like Isaiah’s vision.


And yet…

if we stay long enough…
if we sit in the darkness instead of rushing past it…

something begins to happen.


We begin to see.

That God has never been absent.

Not in creation.
Not in chaos.
Not in exile.
Not in suffering.


God has always been on the move.

Always creating.
Always liberating.
Always loving.

And most clearly—yes—in Jesus.

But not only there.


Because tonight reveals something deeper:

God’s love is not limited to one moment in history.

It is woven through all of it.

And that means God’s love is woven into our lives, too.


Even the parts we don’t understand.

For if God is the Great Mystery and we are made in God’s image…
We too are made of mystery, so we’re always learning more about who we are and whose we are.

God’s love is woven into the parts that feel broken.
For God in Christ Jesus did not come to earth in search of the 99, but the 1 lost one…
We know that the liberating salvation Christ brings means that He enters our messiness not to sterilize it, but to call new life into being.


Even in the parts of us that feel like tombs, God’s love comes.

For the Spirit of God continually breathes new life—not as the world sees it—but as God sees resurrected life…

We discover that the whole shape of our lives is life, death, and resurrection—order, disorder, and reorientation. 


And then—after all the stories—comes not only the Gospel meaning Good News, but the Bestspel meaning Best News! 
The stone is rolled away.

The tomb is empty.

Christ is risen.

Alleluia.


And while this truly is the best news, I want you to notice this:

The resurrection is not magic.

It is mystery.

It is not a trick.

It is transformation.

It does not erase what came before.

It reveals that nothing—not sin, not suffering, not even death—
has the final word.


Because this is what love looks like.

Love that creates.
Love that liberates.
Love that suffers.
Love that endures.
Love that rises.


And now…

that love is not just something we observe.

It is something we are invited into.

To become.

To embody.

To live.


So that our lives—
in all their imperfection and all their beauty—
become signs of resurrection.


Places where eternal light breaks in.

Places where earth-shaking hope returns.

Places where self-emptying love refuses to die.


Alleluia.

Christ is risen.

And we are being raised with him.

Amen.






Friday, April 3, 2026

This Too Is What Love Looks Like

On Good Friday we see the self-emptying love of God fully revealed on the Cross. 

Isaiah 52:13-53:12

Psalm 22

Ephesians 1:3-14

John 18:1-19:42


©2026 The Rev. Seth Olson


This sermon was preached on Good Friday at the Episcopal Church of the Holy Apostles in Hoover, AL. A video of the message may be found by clicking HERE. 


Holy God, may my words be your words and when my words are not your

words, may your people be wise enough to know the same. Amen.


Today is Good Friday. And if we’re honest… it doesn’t ever feel very “good.” Not just the story we’ve heard, but the way our World so often resembles Good Friday. Because everywhere we turn, there is news.

Breaking news. Urgent news. Endless news. And so much of it is bad news.


Fear. Violence. Division. Suffering. And sometimes it feels like we are being pulled into the quick sand of despair. 


The noted preacher and author Frederick Buechner once said that the Gospel is bad news before it is good news. And maybe that’s why this day matters so much. Because today, we cannot and do not rush to fix anything.

We don’t explain everything away. We don’t jump ahead to Sunday. We stay here. At the cross.


Because the truth is—this isn’t just a story about long ago. It’s a story about what happens when love confronts power. When truth confronts fear. When grace confronts systems that would rather maintain control than be transformed.


And when that happens… things unravel. The disciples run. Peter denies.

The religious leaders compromise. Pilate hesitates. The crowd turns. And Jesus? He stays. He abides. He dwells with us—just like God always does.


For this is what love looks like: Not avoiding suffering. Not explaining it away. But entering it. Remaining in it. Refusing to abandon the world—even when the world abandons him.


And so the question Good Friday asks is not: “Why did this happen?” Not first, anyway. The question is: Where are you, where are we in this story?


Do we run? Do we deny? Do we give in to fear? Do we protect ourselves?

Or…Do we stay?


Because there are some who do. Jesus’ mother stays. The other women stay. The beloved disciple stays. And… they don’t fix anything! They don’t stop the suffering. All they do is stand there, but it is so powerful. For they refuse to look away from the pain of another, the pain of their Teacher, the pain of their Lord.


Sometimes that is the most faithful thing we can do: 

Stay with those who suffer. 

Stay present in a hurting world.
Stay near the places we would rather avoid.


Because when we do… we begin to see something. Not a solution. But a revelation. That even here—God is not absent. God does not save from a distance. God doesn’t free us from afar. No, God in Christ enters into the messy brokenness of our lives and he stays!


God is here:

In the suffering.
In the silence.
On the cross.


And so today, we do not rush.

We pray.

We watch.

We stay.

Because this…
this is what love looks like.

Amen.



Thursday, April 2, 2026

This Is What Love Looks Like

In the Triduum, we discover what Love truly looks like.


Exodus 12:1-4, (5-10), 11-14

Psalm 116:1, 10-17

1 Corinthians 11:23-26

John 13:1-17, 31b-35


©2026 The Rev. Seth Olson


This sermon was preached on Maundy Thursday at the Episcopal Church of the Holy Apostles in Hoover, AL. A video of the message may be found by clicking HERE. 


Holy God, may my words be your words and when my words are not your

words, may your people be wise enough to know the same. Amen.


Earlier this week—Palm Sunday evening, actually—I was helping get my kids ready for bed.

Bath time, pajamas, the usual rhythm.

And Teddy said something simple.

He said, “My feet are dry… and they hurt.”

So I grabbed some lotion, sat down, and started taking care of his feet while Kim read a story from Lucy’s storybook Bible. 

In the middle of this moment, I realized, “Oh, this is a lot like Maundy Thursday.”

But, let me be clear—I was not doing the same thing that Jesus does for us tonight.

Jesus is washing feet that have walked through dirty streets… 

streets filled with grim and dust… 

and these feet would be inches away from your face as you reclined at table to eat.

It was not a sweet moment.
It was a humbling one.


Still somewhere in the middle of rubbing lotion into my son’s feet, I slowed down.

And I realized—I wasn’t just helping him.

I was loving him.


Not efficiently.
Not abstractly.
Not from a distance.

But right there.
On his level.

In a way that cost me something—time, attention, presence, and money (for the lotion).

And that’s when something deeper hit me.

I may not be doing exactly what Jesus did, but this…

This is the direction Jesus is pointing us tonight.


Because on this night, Jesus does something extraordinary.

He kneels.

The Teacher.
The Lord.
The one who—just days before—was welcomed like a king…

The one through whom all things were made…

The Light of the World…

The Way, the Truth, and the Life…

John tells us 


The Resurrection and the Life kneels.

And he washes their feet.

Even Peter’s.
Even Judas’s.

And then he says something that should stop us in our tracks.


He doesn’t say on this night, “Love your neighbor as yourself”—as beautiful and important as that is.


But: “Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.”

That is a different standard.

That is not: love in proportion to your own comfort.
That is not: love as long as it feels mutual.
That is not: love in a way that preserves your status.


Instead it is: love like this.

Love that kneels.
Love that serves.
Love that moves toward the lowest place.

This is what love looks like—not just any love—agape love, self-giving love, self-emptying love, even.

And if we’re honest, this is the kind of love that does not get rewarded nearly enough in our day and age.

Because it doesn’t climb ladders.
It doesn’t build platforms.
It doesn’t impress crowds.


But it does something far more important.

It makes Christ visible.

Because when we love like this—quietly, humbly, concretely—
we are not putting a spotlight on ourselves.

We are reflecting the light of Christ.

A warm glow.
Not a blinding glare.


A presence that says:
“You are not alone.”
“God is with you—even here.”


And beyond here…
Even in the garden when we cannot stay awake.

Even in the moment of betrayal when we cannot stay faithful.

Even in the courtyard when we cannot stay truthful. 


So, maybe this is the invitation tonight.

Not just to admire what Jesus did.

But to receive it… and then to become it.

To love our families like this.

Washing their feet or putting lotion on them, at least…
Yes.


But also the ones we overlook.
The ones we avoid.
The ones who don’t make it easy.

Even the ones who might betray us.

Because Judas is still at the table tonight.

And Jesus still kneels.


Which means this:

There is no one beyond the reach of this love.

So as we wash and are washed…

as we offer our selves, our souls and bodies at this table…
as we are fed by Christ’s life given for us…

may we be changed.


Not into people who simply believe the right things.

But into people who live this love.

Kneeling.
Serving.
Giving.

This is what love looks like.


Amen.